I recently stumbled across a blog written by Sam Parker. In it, he gave some terrific tips for speaking “no ego:”
- Be humble. Understand you are a (small) part of the world. Service and patience should be your top priorities.
- Be teachable. Focus on what you can learn, rather than showing what you know. Remember that almost everything you know began with the work of someone else.
- Listen more. Make every effort to truly understand what others are saying (beyond just words). It makes for better connections. Allow a small gap of silence before responding. Ask questions (and listen, again).
- Appreciate people. Enjoy others’ contributions. Don’t squelch ideas or defend territory. Encourage people more.
- Relax. Let go of the need to be right or win every time.